You've been curious about kink for years
You just had no idea where to startΒ
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The Ignition Challenge: 21 Days to Awaken Your Kink
A guided journey from curiosity to confidence - designed for people who are ready to explore desire without shame, fear, or overwhelm.
Starts January 7th, 2026
DOORS CLOSE JANUARY 6TH 5PM - DON'T MISS OUT!
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THE INVITATION
You know that feeling.
The late-night Google searches you immediately close. The fantasies you've never said out loud. The curiosity that whispers, "What if there's more?"Β but you have no idea how to explore it safely.
You're not broken. You're not weird. You're not too much.
You're just ready.
Ready to stop wondering and start knowing.
Ready to claim your desires instead of hiding them.
Ready to learn how to communicate, negotiate, and explore kink in a way that's grounded, trauma-informed, and actually feels good.
That's what this challenge is for.
HERE'S THE TRUTH:
Most people spend their entire lives not knowing what they actually want because they've never given themselves permission to find out.
They stay curious but stuck. Turned on but terrified. Fantasizing but never actualizing.
And it's not because they're not brave. It's because they don't have a roadmap. They don't have a guide. They don't have a shame-free container to explore in.
Until now.
WHAT IS THE IGNITION CHALLENGE?
The Ignition Challenge is 21 days of real, grounded, practical kink educationΒ designed specifically for people who are curious but don't know where to begin.
Every day for 21 days, you'll receive:
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A short video from me (3-5 minutes) teaching you one foundational concept, skill, or practice
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Downloadable guides, worksheets, and resources to help you integrate what you're learning
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A shame-free,Β conscious kink approach that honors your pace, your boundaries, and your truth
This isn't theory. This isn't fluff. This is embodied education that will change the way you relate to desire, power, pleasure, and yourself.
WHAT YOU'LL LEARN:
WEEK 1: Foundation & Self-Discovery
π₯ How to uncover what you actually want (not what you think you should want)
π₯ Desire mapping: identifying your patterns, themes, and turn-ons
π₯ Rewriting shame stories and giving yourself permission to explore
π₯ Kink language 101: understanding the terminology without overwhelm
π₯ Consent as a love language: building the foundation for everything
π₯ How to communicate your curiosity with partners (or navigate this solo)
WEEK 2: Skills & Communication
π₯ Negotiation 101: how to design and discuss a scene
π₯ Safe words, signals, and communication systems that actually work
π₯ Disclosure and vulnerability: what to share, when, and how
π₯ Intro to sensory play: awakening touch, temperature, and texture
π₯ Sensual spanking 101: technique, safety, and building intensity
π₯ Power exchange foundations: understanding dominance, submission, and the erotic of control
WEEK 3: Embodiment & Integration
π₯ Kink as spiritual practice: making it sacred, not shameful
π₯ Aftercare essentials: why it matters and how to design yours
π₯ Exploring your kinky archetypes: Dominant, submissive, Switch, and beyond
π₯ Navigating kink communities safely: munches, events, and finding your people
π₯ Pleasure as power: reclaiming your sexuality and authentic expression
π₯ Building your personal kink roadmap: where you go from here
Plus: daily integration prompts, journaling exercises, and practical tools you can use immediately.
THIS IS FOR YOU IF:
β You've been curious about kink for years but had no idea where to start
β You've Googled "how to explore BDSM" at 2am and closed the tab before anyone saw
β You know there's something more you want, but you don't have the language to ask for it
β You're tired of feeling ashamed of your desires
β You want to learn consent, communication, and negotiation skills that actually work
β You're ready to explore power, sensation, and pleasure on YOUR terms
β You want trauma-informed, shame-free education from someone who actually gets it
β You're single, partnered, poly, questioning, experienced, or brand new and ready to go deeper
THIS IS NOT FOR YOU IF:
β You're looking for explicit how-to content (this is education, not pornography)
β You're not willing to do the inner work (curiosity requires honesty)
β You want someone to tell you what you "should" be into (only you know that)
β You're not ready to challenge shame, fear, or old conditioning
WHY ME?
I'm Tash MiaΒ a transformational coach, conscious kink educator and guide for people who are ready to reclaim their power and live unapologetically.
I went from corporate MBA to Mistress. From people-pleaser to Professional Dominatrix. From hiding my desires to embodying them.
And I've spent years teaching people how to do the same.
I know what it's like to be curious but terrified. To want something but have no idea how to ask for it. To feel like your desires make you "too much" or "too weird."
And I also know what it's like on the other side - when you stop apologizing for what you want and start claiming it.
That's where we're going.
This challenge is the education I wish I'd had when I was first stepping into kink. It's grounded. It's practical. It's trauma-informed. And it's designed to meet you exactly where you are.
WHAT'S INCLUDED:
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21 daily videos (3-5 minutes each) with practical, grounded teaching
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21 downloadable resources: worksheets, checklists, guides, scripts, and tools
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Lifetime access to all materials (go at your own pace, revisit anytime)
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Conscious and Trauma-informed, shame-free approach that honors your boundaries and your truth
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A clear roadmap from curiosity to confidence
BONUS RESOURCES:
π Kink Glossary Cheat Sheet (beginner-friendly terminology guide)
π Yes/No/Maybe List (comprehensive consent tool)
π Conversation Starter Scripts (how to talk about kink with partners)
π Desire Mapping Worksheet (uncover your patterns and themes)
π Scene Planning Template (design your first scene with confidence)
π Aftercare Menu Builder (create personalized aftercare rituals)
INVESTMENT:
π₯ $77Β
Challenge begins January 7th, 2026.
Doors close January 6th at 5pm.
THE GUARANTEE:
I believe in this work. And I believe in you.
Here's my promise:
If you show up for all 21 days, complete the exercises, and engage with the material and you don't feel more confident, clear, and empowered in your desires by the end of this challengeΒ I'll refund you. No questions asked.
All I ask is that you actually do the work.
Because this isn't about consuming content. It's about transformation.
FAQS:
Is this for beginners?
Yes. This challenge is designed specifically for people who are curious but don't know where to start. No prior experience needed.
Do I need a partner?
Nope. This challenge is designed to work whether you're single, partnered, poly, or anywhere in between. You're learning skills and building self-awareness - partner optional.
What if I'm scared?
Perfect. Fear means you're challenging old beliefs. This challenge is designed to meet you with compassion, not judgment. We go at YOUR pace.
Is this explicit content?
No. This is education, not pornography. It's grounded, practical, and focused on building skills, communication, and self-awareness.
How much time does this require each day?
10-20 minutes. Each video is 3-5 minutes, and the exercises/journaling are designed to be quick but impactful. This fits into your life, not the other way around.
What if I miss a day?
Each day unlocks as the challenge progresses but you can go back at any stage. Go at your own pace. There's no "falling behind."
Is this only for women?
No. This challenge is for anyone - any gender, any orientation - who is curious about kink and ready to explore.
What if my partner isn't into this?
That's valuable information. This challenge will help you get clear on what YOU want, communicate it confidently, and navigate that conversation with grace, whether they're on board or not.
THE CHOICE:
You can keep wondering.
Keep Googling at 2am and closing the tab.
Keep fantasizing but never exploring.
Keep playing small with your desires because you're scared of what people will think.
Or.
You can say yes.
Yes to curiosity.
Yes to clarity.
Yes to confidence.
Yes to yourself.
21 days. Real education. Real transformation.
Your desires are not something to fix.
They're something to explore.
Let's begin.
π₯ ENROLL NOW - $77
Limited time to register. Challenge starts January 7th.
Doors close January 6th at 5pm.
(This is a digital product. All sales are final (but covered by the 21-day completion guarantee). You'll receive access to the challenge platform via email on January 7th. All materials are for personal use only.)
Ready?
Let's ignite.
Tash π₯
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